Say it. When you say the words "I LOVE YOU", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.(I REALLY MEAN IT NAMAN,kahit medyo nahihiya ako.)

Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.(un nga un ginagawa ko eh,iniintinde ko sya)

Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.(ito den gingawa ko,minamahal ko sya at di ako naghahanap ng change,beside mahal ko talaga sya ah)

Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.(ahhh ganun pala un,now i know, kaya ko toh,mahal ko kase sya talaga)

Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.(date kala ko mawawala na sya sa aken,pero napagusapan naman namen ito,and now i trust her na mahal nya din ako)

Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.(yan i will really not stop loving her,hanga kaya ko gagawin ko just for her dahil mahal ko sya)

9 traits to be a good boyfriend

1. You make her feel beautiful
Buy her, say, a card that expresses your appreciation, compliment her at odd times, and if you feel that she's the most gorgeous creature you've ever laid eyes on, be sure to let her know. Women want to look good for their men, and proving to her that you only have eyes for her will be a validation of that.(kailangan pala toh,pero deep in my heart sya lang ang pinakamaganda at cute na babae sa buong mundo)

2. You challenge her to be better
You should inspire her to make changes that reflect the positive effect you've had on her. (abah, ito alam kong gawin,pinapalakas ko fighting pilit nya, ano ah)

3. You better yourself
Demonstrating what a positive effect your woman has had on you is a fantastic way of gaining ( nice one, ito nagagawa ko na, nawala na nga un pagdodota ko dahil sa kanya at alam ko madmi pa mababago sa akin in a positive way)

4. You respect her (and her family)
It's important to avoid letting your ego get the best of you, so if your mentality is stuck in the '50s, you must adjust to changing times. You have to understand that she's an equal part of the relationship, so appreciate her company.Likewise, try to embrace her family early on. In addition to scoring precious points, being kind and courteous toward her parents is a good way to show that you're serious about the relationship. ( buh, i respect her a lot nga eh, iniintinde ko pa sya,pero family nya di ko pa nakilala pero if ever na nagkachance i will really respect them,makipagFC ku pa,ahaha)

5. You give her space
Trust is the foundation of any good relationship. Part of that entails giving her the freedom to have a life separate from yours without asking 20 questions or having jealous fits, and knowing that she's not taking your trust for granted.( few days nagselos ako,pero natutunan ko nga ito,na dapat may trust ako sa kanya,so from that day i promise to trust her,and ayaw ko naman syang masakal dahil lang sa aken noh)

6. You notice the small stuff
Did she suddenly get highlights in her hair, shed a few pounds, or buy a new dress? Pay her a compliment. Show her that you are attentive and don't miss life's more subtle details.( ay di ko pa nagagawa ata toh,pero i will try to do this to be a better boyfriend)

7. You're self-confident
No woman wants a passive, submissive man who compromises his personality to make her happy. Retain your personality, stand by your opinions, and don't give in too easily. Show her that you are strong and confident. (well i'm trying to do this pero di pala sya ganun kadale specially shy type person ako,pero i'm trying)

8. You're spontaneous
A great relationship is one that never feels stale. So be unpredictable and mysterious in order to keep her guessing. ( parang mahirap toh ah,pero i will try,di ko pa natry eh,pero i will)

9. You listen
Showing her that you have a genuine interest in what she has to say means you respect her opinions and find her interesting. (well i always listen, and i always try to understand her,matiisin naman ako kaya handa ako makineg)

haha
wish me
luck
sana
magawa
ko
lahat
toh,..
ahaha,..
good nyt,..

the 12 things every Filipino can do to help our country

1) Follow traffic rules. Follow the law.
2) Whenever you buy or pay for anything, always ask for an official receipt.
3) Don’t buy smuggled goods. Buy local. Buy Filipino.
(Or, if you read the book, he suggests: 50-50).
4) When you talk to others, especially foreigners speak positively about us and our country.
5) Respect your traffic officer, policeman and soldier.
6) Do not litter. Dispose your garbage properly. Segregate. Recycle. Conserve.
7) Support your church.
8) During elections, do your solemn duty.
9) Pay your employees well.
10) Pay your taxes.
11) Adopt a scholar or a poor child.
12) Be a good parent. Teach your kids to follow the law and love our country.

sana magawa naten
hahaha,..

naniniwala buh kyo sa destiny?
ako...hmmm...di gaano....
aha,..
pero may kilala ako naniniwala dun,..
ahaha,..
and sa tingin nya di ako un destiny nya,..
pero kahit na sa tingin nya di ako ang destiny nya,...
ang alam ko lang
hanga kami pa,..
gagawin ko ang lahat
para mapasaya ko sya,..
hanga kaya ko,..
handa ko ibigay lahat para sa kanya,..
ganyan ko sya kamahal,..
kahit ang sakit sakit nah,..
handa ko parin tiisin pra lang sa kanya,..
kung mababasa nya lang sana toh,..
ang drama ko solid,..
yan ang sasabihin nya,..
hahaha,..

pero ito ang alam ko,..
ibinigay ko sa kanya ang aking puso
at ngaun hawak nya ito,..
at habang hawak nya ito at di bibitiwan
di din ako bibitiw,..

Do you think love can change a person?

kase ako dami nabago mula nung nakilala ko ang baby koh,..
dahil sa kanya nagawa kong iwasan un pagdodota,..
at parang mas nakita ko ang dami pla dapat ayusin sa buhay ko,..
dahil sa love natuto din ako maging mas understanding,..
dahil sa ayaw mo at sa hinde may pagseselosan kah,..
parang ko nagselos ako sa crush ng girl friend ko na crush din sya,..
wow,..
parang surot lang ako na naghiwalay sa pagsasama nila,..
huhuh,..
but nanalig ako dun sa sinabi ng gf ko na mahal nya ako,..
so hanga ngaun iniintinde ko sya,..
well bago palang naman kase kame,..
so i am trying to understand her,..
so bali nagkakaalaman pa kame,..

ahaha ito muna ngaun to be cont.
mamaya,..
ahaha,..

Sili Labuyo

this is the siling labuyo,..
la lang share ko lang,..
ahaha,..
in case you don't know what a siling labuyo is,..
ahaha,..
but know u know,..
hahaha,..

bUyU

hi I'm buyu,..
why buyu?
came from the word dimabuyu my last name,..
ahaha,..
i prefer to be called buyu than my real name,..
ahaha,..

anak ng tokwa di ko alam gmitin toh,..
ahaha,..
well any way high way MC Arthur high way,..
wahaha,..

lets start blogging ahaha,..
wish i could have fun with this,..
hahaha,..
bahala na si batman,..